On Shrinking: From a Professional Shrink
Some thoughts on the Apple TV “Shrinking”: What it gets wrong, and the magic of being a therapist that it happens to capture just right.
Crafting an Inhabited Life
Learning to draft my own clothing has taught me that the most crucial work is often the hidden construction. Read more to hear about how my sewing realizations have contributed to my philosophy on growth and the nature of change.
The Invisible Patient: A Clinical Diagnostic Tool For Burnout
The invisible patient is the unspoken emotional residue that follows you home. Here’s how to identify it.
Warped Peace
In sewing there’s this delicate balance called tension. If it’s too tight, the thread snaps. If it’s too loose, the threads bunch into a “bird’s nest.” When the tension in your life is wrong, it can create a sense of “warped peace.”
When A Sail Becomes an Anchor
Many of us become supports to others due to our sturdiness. But when a sail becomes an anchor, the ship can go down alarmingly fast. Here’s a vitals check on your sturdiness.
My Biggest strength and greatest weakness
My Greatest Strength and Biggest Weakness: are the same thing . . . stubbornness.
My word of 2026
I was never one for New Year’s Resolutions….until this year, when a word of the year chose me.